2009/03/25

~it's not easy of being a parent~



那天在 媽媽阿四 的blog中看到這一句...

"我常說,放棄及時親近孩子,成年人所損失的比孩子更多。"

這就是我常跟大少說的一件事....
告訴他我們要珍惜和小B相處的every single day.
為了小B的成長, 這些時間是值得花的...
再者再講, 也不算是甚麼大不了的事,
小朋友想要的只是父母的時間吧!

希望大家都要 及。時。親。近~~^^

4 則留言:

little star 提到...

i told mr.P about what u wrote....coz i think most of the daddies think it's mom's duty to hang out with the kids and take care of them but not dad's role. and i think it's equally important to have our bbs to have lots of quality time with daddies TOO! and mr. P is one of those daddies that think "okay,if i have extra free time, after i've worked and PLAYED and RELAXED myself, i'll give in some time for my baby" and i totally disagree with this belief!

~米雪~ 提到...

to little star,

u know, what mr.P thinks is exactly the same as Tai Siu...>-<..
i always tell Tai Siu that he should spend more time with siu B or he will regret it.

Tai Siu understands what I mean but i think i need to give him some time to adjust himself...

u are rite, it's important to build up a good relationship w/ our children before it's too late...

hope that mr. P and tai siu can do that too...^^

little star 提到...

hopefully~.....but it sure will take SOME time....and hope that they will do so b4 the babies grow up~~

aileen ♥ motu 提到...

although i am not a mom yet, i can understand what you are saying... totally agree that spending enough time with the kids is very important, it's a way to build a solid and good relationship; not to mention the teaching and guidance... not everything can be taught at school.. especially the attitude towards life, towards others, values....