i told mr.P about what u wrote....coz i think most of the daddies think it's mom's duty to hang out with the kids and take care of them but not dad's role. and i think it's equally important to have our bbs to have lots of quality time with daddies TOO! and mr. P is one of those daddies that think "okay,if i have extra free time, after i've worked and PLAYED and RELAXED myself, i'll give in some time for my baby" and i totally disagree with this belief!
although i am not a mom yet, i can understand what you are saying... totally agree that spending enough time with the kids is very important, it's a way to build a solid and good relationship; not to mention the teaching and guidance... not everything can be taught at school.. especially the attitude towards life, towards others, values....
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i told mr.P about what u wrote....coz i think most of the daddies think it's mom's duty to hang out with the kids and take care of them but not dad's role. and i think it's equally important to have our bbs to have lots of quality time with daddies TOO! and mr. P is one of those daddies that think "okay,if i have extra free time, after i've worked and PLAYED and RELAXED myself, i'll give in some time for my baby" and i totally disagree with this belief!
to little star,
u know, what mr.P thinks is exactly the same as Tai Siu...>-<..
i always tell Tai Siu that he should spend more time with siu B or he will regret it.
Tai Siu understands what I mean but i think i need to give him some time to adjust himself...
u are rite, it's important to build up a good relationship w/ our children before it's too late...
hope that mr. P and tai siu can do that too...^^
hopefully~.....but it sure will take SOME time....and hope that they will do so b4 the babies grow up~~
although i am not a mom yet, i can understand what you are saying... totally agree that spending enough time with the kids is very important, it's a way to build a solid and good relationship; not to mention the teaching and guidance... not everything can be taught at school.. especially the attitude towards life, towards others, values....
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